"WAT CHU KNOW BOUT ME"

MY DREAM: TO BE A WELL KNOWN SUCCESSFUL TEACHER/PROFESSOR AND COUNSELOR WHO HELPS THOSE WHO STRIVE FOR EXCELLENCE OR LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCES; WHETHER IT BE EDUCATIONAL OR NOT.

TOUCHSTONE: KNOWING THAT I CONTRIBUTED TO SOMEONE GETTING EDUCATION OR SUCCESS.

ROLE MODEL: MY FATHER, MS. WINFIELD (OLD H.S. COUNSELOR) AND MY MOTHER. (I TRIED TO THINK OF SOMEONE ELSE OTHER THAN MY MOTHER AND FATHER, BUT THEY ARE THE ONES WHO I PERSONALLY SAW IN ACTION, WHO GENUINELY CARED ABOUT SOMEONE BECOMING SUCCESSFUL IN THEIR OWN WAY AND GRASPING A GREAT EDUCATION).

TARGET: BE A WELL KNOWN COLLEGE PROFESSOR AND EVEN MAYBE A HONORARY PROFESSOR. WIN A 5,000 SUAVE TEACHER OF THE YEAR AWARD (IF THEY'RE STILL OFFERING THEM; LIKE MY FATHER WHO WAS ENROLLED BY ONE OF HIS STUDENTS).

MY PERSONALITY TYPE

ENTJ

(Extraverted, iNtuitive, Thinking, Judging)

ENTJ: The Executive

"The executive primary mode of living is focused externally, where they deal with things rationally and logically. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. ENTJ are natural born leaders. they live in a world of possibilities where they see all sort of challenges surmounted, and they want to be the ones responsible for surmounting them. They have a drive for leadership, which is well-served by their quickness to grasp complexities, their ability to absorb a large amount of impersonal information, and their quick and decisive judgments. They are "take charge" people. ENTJ's are very career focused, and fit into the corporate world quite naturally."

MY INSIGHTS UPON REVIEWING "THE PORTRAIT"

THOSE WHO ARE CONSIDERED ENTJ "DISLIKE TO SEE MISTAKES REPEATED, AND HAVE NO PATIENCE WITH INEFFICIENCY."ALTHOUGH I KNOW MISTAKE HAPPEN, I DO DISLIKE TO SEE MISTAKE REPEATED. I FEEL THAT YOU SHOULD LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES WHICH IS WHY I WANT TO HELP THOSE UNDERSTAND THEIR STUMBLING BLOCKS AND DIFFICULTIES. UPON READING THIS PORTRAIT. I WAS GETTING A SENSE THAT ENTJ TYPES SEEM TO BE VERY BOLD AND SOMEWHAT BOSSY (I FEEL I CAN BE BOLD, BUT I TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM PLAYING THE BOSS ROLE.).

SOME OF THE THINGS I READ WERE INSPIRING AND FUNNY TO READ, AND MADE ME THINK ABOUT HOW I INTERACT WITH PEOPLE AND HOW I'M VIEWED. USUALLY HOW I'M VIEWED IS THE LEAST OF MY CONCERNS. AS I WAS READING, I SAW THAT A LOT OF THE THINGS THAT ENTJ TYPES STRIVES FOR ACTUALLY COINCIDED WITH MY DREAM AND TOUCHSTONE.

I ALSO IDENTIFIED MY CAREER WITH JUNG CAREER INDICATOR. I FOUND IT VERY INTERESTING THAT MANAGEMENT IN BUSINESS OR EDUCATION, COUNSELING AND HIGH SCHOOL EDUCATION WERE THREE OF THE CAREERS THAT WERE IDENTIFIED, ALL OF WHICH I WOULD ENJOY.

Digging A Little Deeper

PICK A COLOR
I am the color orange. I am a burst of sunshine with a hidden heat that is felt every now and then. I bring a sense of relaxation and warmth with a cool breeze. I am warming and welcoming.

PRIVATE-EYE
Jessica, a 21 year old college student, who attends school and works at a bank that requires her to wear an uniform. Based upon her closet, she likes to look unique and different from the average look of a college student who works. Everything is in its rightful place in a spacious and neat manner. From the looks of all her belongings, she likes anything that has alot of quality and durability. She is very simple with a unique-style. Her living rooms consists of a television/DVD player, a comfortable couch and chairs to give off a warming and relaxing environment.

CHEERING SECTION
Maya Angelou: "Jessica is a very inspiring role-model to younger girls. She shows them how to live outside the box, rather than sinking in this world of routine teenage behaviors.

Michelle Obama: "She has alot of things bottled up that can change someone's life and brighten their smile. She has enough intelligence to succeed in any type of environment."

Laurie Ann Gibson: "She is a quick learner with an unique style. She can be the secret weapon of any society. Sincere love of dance."

Beyonce: "I see alot of qualities in her that I attain myself. Must be a "virgo" thing. Dont underestimate her."

Taraji P. Henson- "Two snaps and around the corner. Jessica is a warming, intelligent, black women. A great representer for women."

TWENTY THINGS I LIKE TO DO

1. Shopping

2. spending time with friends

3. going out to eat

4. dancing

5. watching basketball

6. spending time with family

7. running/racing

8. going to amusement parks

9. traveling

10. watching love/comedy movies

11. clean in any way

12. buying new clothes, shoes, purses

13. getting hair done

14. playing with my niece and nephew

15. being a role model to younger girls

16. taking pictures

17. laughing

18. learn something new

19. get beauty rest

20. get money

The things that I like to do involves:

*having plenty of money and time

*consists of many people

*has nothing to do with school or work

*moreso planned than spontaneous

*physical movements

*the mind, body and spirit. Moreso mind and body.

MY IDEAL ENVIRONMENT

Jessica, 21, very outgoing and open to new things and ideas. She lives amongst the downtown

area. Fast paced with a booked day full of work, fun and counseling. She works from 8:00am to

3:00pm at a Chicago Public high school. After school is out she coaches both track and field and

volleyball and sponsors a newly formed dance group in the school. She has her own personal

chauffeur and lives closeby the Chicago downtown area. She lives near a shopping area, fitness

club and restaurants. She has very energetic and positive people around at all times. She has lots

of friends who loves to laugh and shop as a soul soother, (lol).

MY IDEAL DAY

My ideal day consists of me waking up to a not bath with lots of bubbles. A big breakfast

of french toast, eggs and bacon (yummy). My outfit would be already iron and picked out. My hair freshly permed from the day before. A call from a friend or family member with an idea of something new or odd to do for the day. Making an arrangement to fit in that odd and new idea, possibly taking up a pole dancing class at Flirty Girl Fitness, for a different type of workout. Meeting up with male brothers and cousins to laugh hysterically about anything and maybe play the game "HORSE" in basketball. Arrive back home to freshen up and get ready for my trip to Miami, Los Angeles, or New York. Fly first class at 7:00pm, while a stunning male waits as I arrive to accompany me. If time permits, a simple gathering full of networking, laughs and entertainment. A dinner-date afterwards to end the night with a hotel suite already payed for and arranged to my liking.

FANTASY ANALYSIS

THE THINGS OF MY IDEAL DAY THAT ARE INDISPENSABLE:

BATH

FRESH PERM

LAUGHTER WITH MALE BROTHERS AND COUSINS

OUTFIT ALREADY IRONED

EXCERCISE

OPTIONAL BUT DESIRABLE:

DINNER DATE

FRENCH TOAST

POLE DANCING CLASS FOR WORKOUT

TRIP TO MIAMI AND LOS ANGELES

FRILLS

EGGS BACON

HOTEL SUITE ALREADY PAYED FOR

STUNNING MALE AWAITING MY ARRIVAL

PLAYING HORSE IN BASKETBALL

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU WALK THROUGH AN ADJUSTED FANTASY DAY WITH ONLY THE INDISPENSABLE ELEMENTS IN IT?

A normal day out with my family or friend. Nothing spontaneous or out the norm.

WHAT-IF ANY-ELEMENTS OF THAT DAY DO YOU ALREADY HAVE?

Laughter with brothers and cousins

the baths

fresh perm

breakfast with french toast, eggs and bacon

outfit already ironed

playing horse in basketball

WHAT ELEMENTS OF THE ADJUSTED IDEAL DAY ARE CONSPICUOUSLY ABSENT FROM YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW?

The dinner dates, traveling, regular days of excercise, hotel suite made to my liking already payed for, and pole dancing excercises.

WHAT STANDS BETWEEN YOU AND HAVING YOUR ADJUSTED IDEAL DAY TOMORROW?

My job and school schedule stands between me from having my ideal day. I feel I have all the things I need in order ti make this day happen except the work and school vacation time and a little bit more money.

Jessica in the Eyes of Others

I interviewed both my mother and father about how I was as a child. My father stated that in the first five years of my childhood I was a "real good kid and a quick learner. She learned her numbers and colors and anything that had to do with school in a quick manner." My father was unsure about what I loved and what games I liked to play, he actually stated, "ask your mother, I'm not sure, you liked alot of things." My father stated that the unique thing about me to him was that I always was reading, learned quick, and got good grades. He stated that he thought I would become a doctor or a lawyer when I grew up.

My mother stated that in the first five years of my childhood I was bright but stubborn. She stated that I was strong willed and wanted things my way. I always picked things up quick and always wanted things done in a particular way with everything, Very picky. My mother stated that I would hide things in different places (couch, closet, under the bed) when I didn't want anyone to bother or play with my belongings. She said that I loved playing with baby dolls, dressing and styling their clothes and hair. My mother stated that they would always make sure the doll was bald because I liked to do their hair using curlers, gel, and grease which would cause the doll to be bald the next day or week. I loved playing memory games, hungry hungry hippo and trouble. The most unique thing about me according to my mother was that I was a self-taught individual. Learning was a natural thing and I learned very quick. She felt as if I would be a beautician when I grew up because I always did hair, but she always wanted me to be whatever made me happy.

I interviewed five friends, 4 girls and 1 boy and asked them what did they think were my gifts/strengths. Clarissa stated that my faith, modeling, sense of humor, goal oriented, and persistant. Malisha stated down to earth, real, self-sufficient, sense of humor and goal oriented. Dwayne stated that my attitude, personality, courage, strong will and drive to succeed were my strengths. Jaleya stated that giving advice, great listener, self-motivated, goal oriented and selfless. Jasmine stated that self confidence, personality, determined, fast learner, and communication skills.

The one thing that I did on this week that I stated that I had loved was run/race. I met up with one of my old classmates from high school and spoke about our old track years. I started talking about how we use to race each other for money. I challenged him to run down the block and back. He was a little hesitant, because he felt that I wasn't serious. So he made me make a bet. If he won, I had to get him some icecream and if I won he had to take me shopping. I agreed to the bet and then we got one of our others friends to come watch to determine the winner. In the end, I ended up having to buy him some rainbow sherbert from baskin robbins, in which he is still waiting on :-).